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How do you break up with Russian girls online and offline
January 28, 2020
At one point in life, everyone faces
the dilemma of breaking up with a partner. Chances are, if you’re actively
dating the Russian girls online or offline, you’ll face this question with one
of them. In fact, breaking up with someone must be entirely up to the one doing
If you chose to leave the
relationship, you should be able to know when the time for this is ripe and
whether you have the means to do it. It is a pretty hard challenge, but you
should be able to sweeten this bitter pill. In such a case, it would be a great
help if you knew the mental traits the Russians largely share or what tricks
they use to get out of the uncomfortable relationship.
The popular belief is that Russian
women are more faithful than pretty much wherever this statement was said out
loud. It’s not very clear where this rumor took root, but the reality is a bit
Russia is one of the world leaders
regarding divorces per capita. Having several families over the course of a
life isn’t a very uncommon practice in Russia. Whether it’s mostly the men’s or
women’s fault is not certain, but what’s certain is the fact that Russians like
to end their marriages.
Dumping a girlfriend
The situation with dating, however,
is a lot less dramatic. Obviously, you can have more dating partners in your
life than you’ll ever have marriages, however hard you may try. People here
don’t end the dating relationships that often, despite the upper-mentioned
fact. The reasoning is that marriages usually end because the couple gets fed
up with each other after some time, simple enough.
And while ending the dating
relationship after 3-4 years is OK, ending the marriage after the same term
isn’t very normal.
In the end, don’t
worry that you’ll get dumped pretty quickly because of how notorious the
Russian divorce practice is, but don’t expect the supernaturally long
How do you break
up with Russian girls online
This may sound like an easy task.
Relationships over distance can’t be that serious, right? And after all, if
talking it over doesn’t help, you can just severe all contacts and be gone, can
Well, that’s a finely reasoned
statement that you can embody if something goes wrong in your future online
dating experience. Or you may never do it, because it’s very idiotic.
The belief that you can just leave
the relationship by severing contacts may work on some shady websites. But if
your relationship is at that point where you need to talk to end it — then you
can’t just leave. Because if you’ve reached this point, you’ve already
exchanged contracts and she’ll find you.
So… don’t start to
date Russian girls online thinking that you can just bail if things go
How you really should break up online
Dating online isn’t a substitute for
a real dating experience. You and your partner both can treat it as nothing,
and then one of two things can happen:
gradually stop contacting each other and at one point just forget that your respective
‘partner’ exists at all;
–Or in time you
realize you haven’t treated it as nothing hard enough, and you end up being in
a responsible relationship that will last for a few months (if you don’t extend
it by meeting online, that is)
Therefore, if your
relationship isn’t treated like anything, it will end eventually. You just have
to try less and less, and then it will most likely end. If for some reason it
doesn’t, and she continues to message you (you know how it is), you may start
wondering if you can just bail.
That’s pretty tempting, true. The
case can be even harder if she really enjoyed dating you and you didn’t. All
you need to do is explain why you want to break up. If the reason is too rude,
then say that you think that dating remotely isn’t for you and that you don’t
feel like it works out. It should work.
But if your relationship is more serious than you thought (especially if you combine dating on- and offline), then you’ll have a hard time breaking up. In this case, it’s better to be responsible about it and break up as if you’d dated offline.
Breaking up offline
That’s the ultimate subject of this
article, isn’t it? It’s the most complex as well. Online you often may not put
as much effort into this, but offline you’ll have to do your best to end the
relationship as smoothly as possible.
That’s why you’ll need to summon all
the charm you’ve got and know your partner pretty well. Russians have a good
memory when it comes to sharp break-ups. Do it smoothly or you can expect no
quarter next time you meet your ex-girlfriend.
Pieces of advice
Russian women may be pretty
assertive and initiative, don’t forget that. That’s why there’s a little… ruse
you may utilize to bail, more about that below. Here are a few uniquely Russian
pieces of advice to end the relationship:
That’s a ruse that was mentioned above. The Russian
women often like to make the first step in ending a relationship. You may use
it if you feel your girlfriend is that kind of woman. If you feel that your
relationship has become unbearable for both of you, just do something she
really dislikes. It’s a bit cruel, but it will save you both brain cells. After
that, she may say what you both knew was coming — that this relationship needs
to come to an end;
Don’t use your origins to justify leaving her. As much
as being a foreigner may help you win the girlfriend, telling her you need to
break up because you need to leave for your homeland or because of some
tradition or other may cause a bad reaction. Russians have a strange attitude
towards outsiders. Generally, they like them if they are nice and they utterly
hate them if they aren’t. It seems reasonable, but being bad in
the eyes of a Russian isn’t a big feat;
Actually, you can justify it like that, but you have to do something extraordinary beforehand and you need to be sincere about it. If the reason you have to break up is that you have to leave, then be sincere about it. And sweeten the pill by doing something that will make her happy
good time for it. Optimally, do it in summer, because the Russian winters may
be very depressing. And you don’t want to make it even harder for her to stay
cheerful. Unless you don’t care, then it’s probably fine.
How to break up
with a woman you date both online and offline
Breaking up with Russian girls
online is a bit easier than doing it offline. But you know you’ve put yourself
in a lot of mess when you started dating a woman both online and offline and
now decided to bail. That cuts off the option of leaving for your homeland and
you also have to do it offline.
If you decide to end the
relationship via the Internet, prepare to never enter the Web again. Dumping
anyone you know in real life by messaging them isn’t cool, but it also will
signal that you never treated the relationship seriously. And it’s never good
to have that kind of background.
So, do it according to the pieces of
advice above and be smooth. Remember that it’s still a genuine relationship,
even though it started when you tried to hit on Russian girls online.
You should be as smooth while breaking
up as possible because Russians don’t dump their partners very often, and it’s
not an everyday thing. Same goes for doing it online, dating people via the
Internet isn’t a cheap substitute, often a serious emotional exchange lies in
it. You don’t want to cut it off on a whim.
That’s pretty much it. In case you
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